How To Make A Knuckle-Head

We live in a culture where many guys are...well...to be honest...real knuckle-heads!

We have guys who are boys in mens bodies!

I can remember years ago hearing a speaker address a room full of men [men who were seeking to be better husbands, fathers...better men]...this guys said...

"you are born a male...but you have to choose to be a man"...his words are so true!

We live in a culture where men are a bunch of self consumed, pleasure seeking, responsibility sherking...boys...but they are packaged in men's bodies.

Many of these guys live like their 19...even though they are now 29, 39...gulp...49!

Sure, many have jobs...but they earn their money so they can spend it on their irresponsibility...buy more toys...do some more traveling...let check out the clubs...maybe find ourselves a few "ladies"!

These guys do not have marriage in mind...ARE YOU KIDDING?!...that would mean responsibility...living your life for the well being and good of someone else...no way!

So they go through life...experiencing girl friend after girl friend...getting older...still partying...still avoiding responsibility...

Mean while...back at the farm...on the woman's side...many of them must fear and dread the idea of marriage. They already see that much of their relationships with guys is give and...give...and...give...but no take.

Why in the world would the woman want to enter into a life long covenant with a guy who lives for self, lives for the moment...and only really wants to take from the relationship?